This is for the ladies out there. How in portant is it for your lover to ?

I am 62 years old and have prostate cancer and have a number of possible treatments available from total removal to the installation of radioactive pellets into the prostate to kill the cancer. The best option is total removal which would leave me unable to during . Do you see this as an et or a drawback? Anyone under 45 need not answer because I would not be looking for in that age group.